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Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Caring for Carter
by Karin L. Nauber
That moment when a parent first gets to hold their
newborn baby is both miraculous and indescribable.
When your baby is 17 days old the first time you
get to hold him, the moment takes on special meaning.
For Eric and Mindy Denny of rural Long Prairie,
they know what that special moment is like.
"It was pretty awesome," said Eric, searching for
the right words.
"It was a long wait," said Mindy.
Their first child, Carter, was born on May 27 at
the Abbot Northwestern Hospital in Minneapolis via a cesarean
section. He was born with a condition called congenital
diaphragmatic hernia (CDH) and immediately required a breathing
tube.
"We were able to take a couple pictures and then I
followed him in a cart over to the Children's Hospital. There he
was connected to a respirator immediately and later that morning
to an ECMO machine. The ECMO machine pumps blood for Carter and
oxygenates his blood," said Eric.
CDH means that Carter has a hole in his diaphragm
between his chest cavity and abdominal cavity. Due to the
diaphragmatic hernia, some of his abdominal organs such as some of
his intestines and stomach are in his chest cavity pressing on his
lungs and heart. This has caused his lungs to be under developed.
The Dennys found out early on at a 20-week
ultrasound that Carter had problems.
"We found out what it would all mean in January,"
said Eric, "That was a long month."
"As far as finding out what we were up against, we
looked up information on the Internet to educate ourselves," said
Eric.
"Without that 20-week ultrasound, he wouldnít have
been here,î"said Mindy.
That ultrasound opened up a path that the Dennys
have been traveling down and will continue to travel with their
infant son for quite some time.
In January they made the first of many trips to the
Abbot Northwestern Hospital to determine how severe the CDH was.
They also needed to determine if their unborn childís (they did
not find out which sex Carter was until he was born in spite of
many more ultrasounds) liver was up or down where it was supposed
to be.
"It turned out it was up (in his chest) and he had
a huge hole (in the heart)," said Eric.
They didn't find out just how big until the surgery
was performed after Carter's birth.
Mindy went in for ultrasounds every three weeks to
a month and in the last month went in every couple of weeks.
Carter's heart was pushed way to the right side
because of the other organs being pushed up.
The left side CDH (where Carter's was) is more
common in boys, but even at that it only occurs in about one in
every 2200 live births.
"We didnít know if Carter was a boy or a girl, but
because of his symptoms, we guessed he was a boy," said Mindy.
The week before Carter's anticipated arrival, Mindy
stayed with Eric's aunt, Tracy Denny, who lives in Farmington so
she would be closer to the hospital.
After Carter was born he was immediately intubated
and put on a breathing machine. The Dennys never heard Carter cry
at that time. It would be almost a month before they would hear
him cry for the first time on June 25.
That was the day they removed his breathing tube.
"It brought tears to my eyes. He looks like a whole
new boy," Mindy wrote on their Caring Bridge site.
Carter also suffers from a VSD, a ventricle septal
defect which is a hole on the bottom of his heart and an ASD, an
arterial septal defect which is a hole between the right and left
ventricles.
The doctors are not able to plug the VSD hole as
they were able to plug the ASD which was 8 mm in size.
"They are hoping it will close by itself. It is not
hurting him now. If they do have to plug it later, they will have
to do open heart surgery," said Mindy.
Another bump in the road to getting Carter home is
that many babies with CDH, whose lungs are smaller than usual,
breathe faster and require more calories. They burn those extra
calories just breathing, so their lungs donít grow.
Carter also has a reduced number of vessels which
is called pulmonary hypo plasia.
In the next six months or longer that Carter will
have to spend in the hospital, the doctors are hoping and
expecting several things to happen: Carterís lung growing, getting
his hypertension (high blood pressure) on the right side of his
heart under control (it is 3x higher than it should be).
There are also small areas in his lungs that are
collapsed and they are attempting to control those with the
ventilator settings. Unfortunately, because of all the ventilation
he has been on, his airways are changed.
Carter also suffers from bronchial spasms.
"He becomes 'air hungry,'" said Mindy, who was
holding him during one of the episodes.
It is still scary for the Dennys when he has an
episode, but since he has received a tracheostomy tube, the
episodes have reduced in number.
Eventually Carter will come off the ventilator and
just have the tracheae tube and the feeding tube. He may have the
tracheae tube for two years or more.
"It's unknown how long he will have it in. It
depends how he does," said Eric.
Carter currently gets fed continuously about 40 ml
an hour through the feeding tube. He gets 12 hours of formula and
12 hours of breast milk.
Part of the reason for the feeding tube is because
of the ventilation. The feeding tube used to go through his nose,
but now goes through with the tracheae tube.
"They told us that the majority of kids who are
ventilated for a long time have an oral aversion to having things
in their mouths. The feeding tube will come out last," said Mindy.
Eric works for Diversicom Telephone Company in
Melrose and crop farms. Mindy works for Central Minnesota Federal
Credit Union as an internal audit assistant in the Albany office.
Mindy spends around five days of the week in The
Cities with Carter. She works 20 hours a week. Eric spends two
days a week with Carter and Mindy.
According to the Dennys, the last few days have
been good for Carter as he has been playing with his toys and
smiling.
"It has been an experience. We have met a lot of
people. One couple we have met have become good friends," said
Mindy.
"The nurses have been wonderful. We don't ever have
to worry when we are gone. We know Carter is being taken care of
like he is their own," said Mindy.
"Besides she calls several times a day," said Eric.
Eric and Mindy stay at the Ronald McDonald House
which is about four miles from the hospital.
"This has given us a whole new perspective on
life," said Mindy.
"You learn to take one day at a time," added Eric.
"When he's doing good, we're doing good," said
Mindy.
The Dennys are very appreciative of the prayers,
well wishes and support they have received from family and friends
and even people they do not know.
Eric is the son of Doug and Joan Denny of Clarissa.
You can keep up on Carter's progress on his Caring
Bridge site at caringbridge.org/visit/babydenny.
This
button is only slightly larger than the 8 mm hole that was in
Carterís heart and was plugged.
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