Letter to the Editor

To the Editor:

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, a time to address an issue that affects far too many young people. Research shows that one in three teens in the U.S. will experience some form of dating abuse—whether emotional, verbal, physical or digital—before adulthood.

One of the most powerful ways to prevent dating violence is by teaching healthy relationship skills:

• Boundaries.

Boundaries are personal limits that protect emotional and physical well-being. They might include how much time teens spend together, how they communicate, and what behaviors are acceptable.

• Trust.

Trust is built when both partners respect those boundaries, communicate honestly, and show reliability over time.

Unfortunately, many teens are never taught how to set boundaries or recognize when they are being crossed. This can leave them vulnerable to manipulation, control or abuse. It is important that parents, and educators have open, judgment-free conversations with teens about what respect looks like when dating.

Today’s teens deserve relationships rooted in respect, trust, and safety. This month, let’s commit to raising awareness, and empowering young people to set boundaries and expect nothing less than kindness and respect from their partners.

Awareness is the first step toward prevention—let’s take it together.

If you or someone you know would like additional information regarding teen dating violence or just want to talk, contact Hands of Hope Resource Center at 320-732-2319 or 800-682-4547.

Barb Dinkel Goodrich

Lead Advocate Domestic

Violence/Sexual Assault Services

Hands of Hope Resource Center Todd County